ahahaah, I my God, Sarah, I was folded when I read it.
You are right, is quite agressive, and I reckon you think friendlier is better.
I really didn't get why you found Agro so ugly, though.
All in all I can point out sometimes looking friendly doesn't mean looking sexy isnt'It!? they always say I have sweet eyeeees, I tried the bad look instead.
I knew girls like bad guys, not the good ones! or maybe things have changed, have they?!LOL