O/T Vague Sense of Discomfort

[Bruce Barnard]

First, I'll thank you in advance for bearing with me on this one.
After three months of geeking, trawling and placing some infrequent and on occasion dull as ditchwater posts; gaping in wide eyed wonder at the rigid etiquette of the whole thing. I've decided to call it quits. I was drawn here by a need to understand the psychology of why people fuck on film and why so many people want to watch it (at times even obsess about it to a point that could be defined as unhealthy).
This forum has in some ways for me defined the meaning of the word 'community',a place where people seek like minded souls to express a strong opinion. That can only be a positive thing, I thank everyone who has made me laugh like a drain when I've read their posts. It's happened a lot in the last twelve weeks and for that I'm always grateful. Special thanks to Ace for giving me the opertunity to judge things for myself, and to Phil for his polite and reasoned response to my sometimes bigoted worldview. Apologies Phil, that I felt the need to express this in the public domain.
Some may think the opinions I'm about to express negative, but I'd like to state for the record that I vocalise them here because deep down I think they work towards the good. They may keep people who fuck on film for a living fit and healthy.

My notivation is in no way to 'monkeywrench' or 'irritate', I really feel some porn folk, both consumers, producers and fans live in complete denial of the true facts. We all depend on an element of freedom of speech to thrive, and I hope this message evidences this, given that it represents a veiw from the margins that I think should be heard. I labour under the illusion that the majority of porn consumers, don't want to put off by facing the grim spectre of death just as they reach the vingear stroke. I may be wrong, but deep down I know I speak the truth.
Firstly I've had a road to Damascus moment in some respects, over the short time I've been looking in; especially in relation to the standing of women in the industry. The posts from Sandie, Layla, Autumn et al, have at least taught me that in the past I've been guilty of bigotry, especially given my predispostion to mouth off from a basis of deeply uninformed opinion.
Still I think the following points need to be made. Indeed I'm willing to use my real name and give a legit e-mail address to prove that my motives are true. I make just five points, mostly adressed to performers, but veiwers may wish to take note, at least if they really care for their VHS objects of desire.

1) The industry practice of asking for evidence of a current HIV test before getting naked is highly commendable; but sadly it's almost as much use as a chocolate teapot when it comes to preventing disease transmission. Unless you are having DNA HIV testing, as rare as a Dodo's egg in UK STD clinics, you are not safe. It's sad but true, but you may as well keep your fingers crossed during sex scenes, because that's just as effective as a method of preventing HIV, as carrying a piece of paper that promises the world but offers nothing in real terms. Phone your local STD clinc, ask for information about the 'window period' in relation to HIV testing and they'll give you the details.
2) If you haven't had the three jabs which give immunity for Hepatitis B you either have a death wish or you have been badly advised. Ask at your local STD clinc.
3) Anal to Mouth? Think about it.
4) The staff at your local STD clinic see behaviour from the general public that makes a Max Hardcore video look like a Electric Blue tape. Be shameless about what you do for a living, not only won't they judge, people like me who work there will think it's a positive alternative to long shifts and low pay.

I realise this post has dragged, if you're still listening then I'm grateful. For an indication of how far I've travelled, how grateful I am for all your help, you could look at an article I write a few years ago on my noe deceased website. I was wrong, badly wrong, and I thank you all for showinh me this.



Thanks for everything

Bruce (aka Fatguyranting)

[Officer Dibble]

" Anal to Mouth? Think about it." - I'd rather not thanks Bruce. There are some sick fucks out there.

Dibble.

[magoo]

Dibbsie Babe,

Go further down the board and see me agreeing with you for once about how twatish moaning clients can ruin a business.

As for the above post. Far too odd for me to comment on.

[Bruce Barnard]

Attn Magoo:

Odd in what way? In the sense that it breaks your veneer of denial and makes you start to think about the rich bacterial stew all performers consent to consume in order to sastisfy the jaded mind-set of the 'daytime drawn curtain massive'.
To my mind Porn is rapidly becoming defined by it's constant search for further'humiliations'yet unseen. Rather then any sense of providing a straight representation of 'the in and out' old school fuck dynamic.
Misogony is slowly creeping into all smut product, a result of the 'when the US catches a cold, the world starts sneezing' effect. That was the beauty of UK product back in the day, it provided a unique visual experience. Now we seem to be heading towards the abyss, blindly following the US model, which relies on treating women badly as a starting point. Who out there is demanding Anal to mouth as a given in all the smut they buy. Someones setting the agenda and it isn't the guy ordering a R18 from an online filth vendor, it must run deeper then that. My apologies I was working on the principle that folk on this forum were able to see through the bullshit.

[magoo]

Bernard. if you do your research you will see that Magoo is one of the guys who questions the very things you raise. Many a time my friends say to me "hang on magoo, you buy porn so why rant about the poor product and bad service or the nasty treatment of bitches and whores". I often play Devils Counsel (not to be confused with devils advocaat-a drink favoured by Dutch lightwieghts). Bollocks South Park is on now so goodnight. Chefs got a healthy attitude toward bitches and indeed whores if Cartmans mam is owt to go by.

[magoo]

Listen Bruce,

I will give you a sensible reply in about five days time. When I have time. Or if I have time. I am busy OK.

[magoo]

Bruce Barnard raises a few good points. Unfortunately I am unable to respond due to being a bit drunk.

[vila]

Bruce does have some valid points, but I disagree that all porn is heading down the total depravity route. Any perusal of this forum will show that there is a huge variety in taste and there will always be a market for good, 'clean' Britporn.

In any case, I'm no medical expert but I would think that even anal-to-mouth could be sanitised with appropriate preparation (enemas etc) and I believe this already occurs with the more responsible producers. Makes it healthier for the performers while not spoiling the enjoyment for the viewers whose taste leans that way.

[magoo]

Yes Villa, but ATM is revolting. AFAIAC. I despair when I see my favourite girls indulging in such revolting antics as licking the revolting ringpieces of male stars. Its horrid to see a pretty girl licking a rancid male arse.

[vila]

But it's only a reflection of real life, Magoo. I remember being quite startled when it happened to me. Poor innocent that I am, I had no idea that girls did that kind of thing without even being asked.