Girls, some of you do anal, some don't. Why?

[max_tranmere]

Anyone know why, when one considers that ALL girls do vag sex (obviously), only some do anal? When a girl is getting a pork sword inserted into her puss at the age of 14, 15, 16 or whatever, she is going to continue doing that for life. Some then say "I'll get into anal sex too, I think I'll enjoy it". They get into it, love it, and do it regularly forever. Others say "I'll just stick with vag thanks, the thought of anal horrifies me!". I wonder why some are into it and others arent, when ALL are into the standard way of shagging. Any opinions? Cate and Poppy enjoy anal. What makes some get into it and do it and others not? Does Cate or Poppy, or anyone else, have a view on this, and do you know why some girls you have known in your life are not into it?

[Floydoid]

Presumably for some girls it's literally a pain in the arse.

[Jonone]

I think it's called curiosity Max. Some people are curious, others less so. Also, you have to appreciate that outside of commercial sex things happen in the context of a relationship ie typically two people. The choice to have anal sex with one person but not with another could suggest that the dynamic of the relationship is different with regard to sex.

As you point out generally we continue to do something because it is enjoyable. Best leave it at that. If you want female performers to add to this thread along the lines of 'I enjoy anal sex because .... ' I think you'll be disappointed and it's a somewhat prurient wish. You'd also be asking them to verbalise something which is more about sensation and feeling.

In porn it's a spectacle and it's a commercial transaction. Whether or not it's enjoyable doesn't come into it; it's more about 'Is it safe?' 'Am I comfortable enough with it to deliver a good scene?' One can fairly easily speculate why some performers opt into 'A' and others don't.

Away from the world of porn and commercial sex as I said, situate it in the context of a relationship and assume it's enjoyable for the people involved.

[one eyed jack]

Without prejudice Max but to ask this question you betray lack of experience with women.

Just think about this for a second....Not every bloke wants to shag girls in the bum hole and Jonone above put it quite nicely about the context of a relationship outside of porn.

Most guys are just happy to dip their dicks in a girls fanny and be content with that. if a blokes sole purpose in life is to get in a girls arse then maybe he needs counselling.

I'm sure porn has a lot to answer for with this obsession for anal sex Im sure.

[one eyed jack]

Not to rain on anyones parade, but who said the girls actually love anal sex???

Try booking a girl for a shoot and see how quick she clocks up the digits for some back door raiding and then thinks after two minutes thats enough...yeah that sounds like real enjoyment.

If they really enjoyed it they wouldnt want extra for it.

[max_tranmere]

Porn certainly does. It was porn that made anal sex popular. I've said on other posts that Ginger Lynn, in the 1980's, made it mainstream. Ginger kind of 'gave anal to the world'. lol. Watch her amazing anal scene in 'Club Ginger' (1986). A hot scene.

[Tanya Cox]

Im a anal virgin and I have to admit im very curious to try anal, but with a longterm partner as a one off.

The reason i choose not to do anal is because .........

*not only is anal sex very messy (some girls follow through and shit themselfs), luckily for you non-scatt fans this is usually cut out,

*but receiving anal sex can also give you permanant bowl leaks,

so for an extra 50 per scene i just don't think its worth the risk, i want to keep my arsehole tight and not have to worry about having any accidents when walking around or travelling on public transport.

xxx

[joe king]

Myth number 1 - Anal sex makes your bowels leak in later life.

[Sarah Kelly]

i adore anal,at the hands of a skilled operator, and there lies the rub.....Not Every giuy that wants to do it is actually any good at it, and the number of girls i know who have been but off by a bad first/first few times is loads....... Lub it,lick it,finger it GENTLY - get her GASPING to try it slowly,sensuously.... Why do you think them butt plugs come in trainer sizes!! The guys that dont realise this are just gonna fuck up the girls they meet ... whereas a skilled operator will open up a whoe new worls of pleasure to a girl.... Dont kill it before it has a chance to blossom................. and maybe if more guys would try it , theyd understand!wink! Strap on Sarah x