Apparently I'm "Arrogant, ego-driven and cocky"

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Sindy_Strutt
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Apparently I'm "Arrogant, ego-driven and cocky"

Post by Sindy_Strutt »

Another stupid email from a joker off AIR

"Hello there Sindy and can you please contact me to discuss your cash fee
rates for Manchester/North West hotel-based and outdoor photo and/or
videoshoot work including large insertions, nylon fetish and facials!

Cheers

Mark x x"


I replied
"How long would I be there? And is the guy who's doing the facial certed"

This was his reply
"Sorry Sindy, but for some reason AIR models have quite an abrupt way
of dealing with enquiries which I'm getting a little tired of so I am
politely withdrawing me enquiry!

Thanks anyway"


I obviuosly then replied stating I'm not some amateur and that time is money so I wasn't going to stroke his ego I just get to the business.
Then I just recieved loads abuse.


Nice fella
NortyFilmer (http://www.adultindustryresources.com/d ... ortyfilmer)


On a positive note I'm on babestation dirty wives tonight! Call me and u'll see I'm not a total bitch lol
Sindy_Strutt
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Re: Apparently I'm "Arrogant, ego-driven and cocky"

Post by Sindy_Strutt »

To be honest I'm really tempted to fuck all this off altogether, I love my job but lately all ive had is shit from people that think they're in the industry.

So there's no money in it anymore and if I don't flirt with a "producer" I'm arrogant. Do I really want to be part of this...
Paul Taylor
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Re: Apparently I'm "Arrogant, ego-driven and cocky"

Post by Paul Taylor »

name and shame him on UKAP forum hun as this will probably get deleted

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myson
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Re: Apparently I'm "Arrogant, ego-driven and cocky"

Post by myson »

Sindy,
Your reply to his initial enquiry seems very reasonable to me. I would say it's him being arrogant.

The info you asked for should have been included in his enquiry.

When I email a model with a shoot enquiry/offer the email contains all the details required and can be so long it's almost like reading "War And Peace" !laugh!.

Just shrug it off Sindy and put him down as another chancer.

Myson
!oldie!

Sindy_Strutt
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Re: Apparently I'm "Arrogant, ego-driven and cocky"

Post by Sindy_Strutt »

Thanx lads, if only all the men in the industry were like you
Jamie South
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Re: Apparently I'm "Arrogant, ego-driven and cocky"

Post by Jamie South »

As an amateur photographer I don't see any problem with your answer. Maybe he was hoping to avoid questions like those.






Amateur photographer based near Gloucester always looking for models.
forepl4yer
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Re: Apparently I'm "Arrogant, ego-driven and cocky"

Post by forepl4yer »

Blimey, how many more times are you going to air you displeasure at someone's enquiry.

Can't you keep things discreet and between the two parties, instead of sounding off every time, someone meets with your displeasure?

There's no way I'd make an enquiry to you... if I didn't offer a ridiculous sum of money (that for some reason, you think your worth) or declined to progress an enquiry, I'd end up being mentioned on BGAFD.

I understand that you are looking to have your ego massaged, by some of the sycophantic producers, on here, but it is a bit unprofessional, in my opinion.

You can get further with a kind word and a gun than you can with just a kind word.
Billy69
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Re: Apparently I'm "Arrogant, ego-driven and cocky"

Post by Billy69 »

all i can say is well said mate well said i couldnt of said it any better myself infact that was fucking quality mate

bye for now

Rodz
Billy69
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Re: Apparently I'm "Arrogant, ego-driven and cocky"

Post by Billy69 »

mate you seem a nice person please dont feed her ego because when you comments like that thats all it does my friend

bye for now

Rodz
bamboo
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Re: Apparently I'm "Arrogant, ego-driven and cocky"

Post by bamboo »

Evening Sindy,

if that's how you replied...

"How long would I be there? And is the guy who's doing the facial certed"

and that's all you put, then I'm afraid it does come across as abrupt.

He greeted you, said 'cheers' at the end. He even put some x x's after his name.

Even when he was withdrawing the offer, he used your name again, withdrew his offer and said 'thanks anyway'.

I also agree with forepl4yer and Billy69, this didn't warrant a mention on BGAFD. He did nothing wrong, until you started having a go at him.
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