Adult industry dating

[pilkster]

Touching on the earlier stacey lacey post, does anyone else think it might be better for people in this line of work to date people who are in the same game, i here loads of models guys and girls who tell us they cant let there other half know they do it, or photographers whos partners arnt happy about it etc. just a thought.

[Layla 962]

hi i was honest from the start with my partner about what i did, she has never had a problem with it and will often accompany me on shoots, she has now even done a shoot herself and we have work lined up to work together so i often think it depends on trust.

[pilkster]

your right i think a lot have problems though i think mainly guys who see there misses gettin a good fucking maybe see that as a threat unlike most of us in this game who would enjoy seeing it lol..

[Layla 962]

yeah thats true, glad im lesbian lolx

[Paul Taylor]

my partner is ok with it, she knows I come home to her at the end of the day and its for the sake of the camera and its a business at the end of the day, nothing more, it just so happens to be sex related work thats all, but layla is right it all comes down to trust.

Paul

[sparky]

IMHO with any full or part time job is is pointless trying to keep it secret from a partner as inevitable they will find out.

Even if you say modelling but only up to lingerie and use a different stage name for higher someone will see a picture or video clip and pass a comment to the partner assuming they know.

Surely also difficult receiving / answering emails & texts without them finding out.

[KrisPxxx]

Its caused me a couple of problems with non industry girlfriends and ive only been involved in the industry a year, ive dated a couple of industry girls also but thats not worked out, i guess it comes down to be honest from the start and if your both into each other.

Generally ive found it NOT to be very well recieved by the norm girl I think because they see it as some form of exhibitionism. They dont get its just work sex, yes it is still fun but not like being intimate with somebody who means something.
I have no problems if I meet a girl who does porn but hey im open minded.!

[SpannerProductions]

Did it the easy way !grin! was married to her before we got involved in the industry so it was a mutual choice from the start !thumbsup!

Now of course it's really just work ....'Hi Dear, I'm off to London to do a photoshoot for.!!!!!!!....., should be fun today - 2 big huge cocks to play with -be back home about 8'ish ' - 'ok darling i'll do the shopping and the washing up , have fun etc etc etc ' .....................it's kinda cool, but then I enjoy hearing about her day later !grin! !hump2!

I suppose for the single guys & gals in the industry it is a little difficult - blinding ice breaker though at parties...'hi, what do you do for a living?' - 'I Fuck...............'

I suppose the serious bit is that - some guys meeting a girl who is a porn actress might have a problem with their missus being ravaged on screen by somebody who is 'possibly' better in the sack than they are - and of course the fact that your mates 'may' have seen more of your new girlfriend than you have !grin!

From the ladies point of view of course, there is also the possible jealousy aspect of 'he'd rather be shagging her, them etc than me amongst others......'

I think your question raises some interesting points for debate and it should be interesting to see what replies come back. !thumbsup!

[Masie]

Its a little off topic but what always makes me chuckle is the boyfriends who ask their porn star ladies to stop doing b/g as they dont like it but let them do all the g/g stuff when half the time the girl is bi. I'd do it the other way around, at least you cant compeat with a rival cock.

[pbphotography]

People can't help who they fall for.

Some relaqtionships within the industry will work some won't.

Some realtionships out with will work some won't.

Depends on the circumstances.