melissa walker

[jj]

Bill Malone wrote:
> Also, his punctuation is deplorable.

If that were grounds for deletion this would be a pretty bare place : -)

[one eyed jack]

Unfortunately Paul, many men (women too) can say that avbout being in a relationship.

If what you say is true (and I have no reason to dispute your claims) then it is relevant and deserves to be here unless Melissa wants it removed of course.

Certainly doesnt sound like the same girl I knew many years ago but then I'm sure many things are conducive to how she turned out. I do resent the use of the word "porn star ruined my life" as I'm sure at the time you were involved with her she was no longer doing porn therefore no longer a porn star and the fact she did do porn has nothing to do with it otherwise we can accuse girls who have merely had sex with men as similar examples. Her doing porn had nothing to do with what she did to you and if it was a problem maybe you shouldnt have got with ehr in the first place.

Porn in itself is not responsible. it is usually symptomatic of a persons choice to do it in the first place. Who is to say she wouldnt have been a better person if she was still doing it?

I think its other facest of the sex industry that are responsible for turning girls heads but I have no proof of that.

In short its not porn that makes people do what they do. its usually circumstances that make them do it. if she was emotionally unstable why did you let her ruin your life and tyour business? I'm intrigued

People in porn are no more dysfunctional than everyone else. Usually its the other way round

[countb]

well said Graham.
I know nothing of any Lincoln connection and last I heard she was in a relationship with a guy who had some form of clubs in York.
If she is working in a parlour in Lincoln,perhaps somebody could tell me which one and I will book 2 weeks off lol

[thealtruist]

I'm sorry but I can't get past the fact she was coked up. Who made her take it? Who gave her the ?1000 a week habit? No one did. She did it herself. She was (supposedly) hghly intelligent, came from a middle class family and went to university but she was still stupid enough to take coke. Talk about stupidity.

[paul cambridge]

Just a short one hope my grammers better this time!!!!!!!!!!!

This will be my last post a big thank you to terry for phoning and spending an hour talking to me it did help to hear what he had to say , and to be honest what a great guy he is and look forward to meeting you after xmas.

to the others that have commented i was interested in the counts last remark of taking a holiday , what put melissa in this crisis was not porn although she hated her films it was escorting and the people she met and how they treated her .
Just my point of view i have dated a few glamour and xxx stars i did this by being cheeky funny having a laugh with them , not by giving them money and thinking that something real had happened trust me it didnt these girls despise the men who pay so all you punters bear it in mind when your paying for it . I am sure somone will respond with we all pay for it , we do but not in such an unreal way

good luck to you all , i own the lap dancing club and local escort agency so feel i do have a bit of inside knowledge on the matter i only want melissa to be ok she was and is the love of my life
Paul Cambridge

[one eyed jack]

Was great talking to you also Paul.

Thanks for taking the time out to do so. Merry Christmas to you and yours