psychology of the male performer

[davewells]

Your right about your fellow countrymen Kelly and Dave is right about what he says. When I first got into studding duties in the early 80's it was because I couldn't stand 'the chase' or 'the seduction'. It used to (still does actually) bore me to death/ Pornoland cuts out all the chocolates, flowers, dinners etc etc. It really can be hello my name is............ and the same back and then the tog or director saying right first position is a bj guys, and away you go. To be a stud is an accomplished art form. The top guys in this country are very good.

[Kelly Steele]

I appreciate your commentary. I can be pretty bruital sometimes on the people of the jizz biz. There is tons and tons of stupidty in this industry.

But with that aside...

Just for your information.

I AM NOT AMERICAN! Like many canadiennes/canadians, I have lived and worked in the United States. But I am not one of them.

This might come as a big shock to most people in the U.K. But pretty much most of my fellow country men don't particularly like americans. We aren't necessarily "Anti-American" but we would prefer to not have to deal with them.

(Kind of like having a next door neighbour that errects a giant statue of Jesus Christ in his front yard. You don't hate him, jus wish he would go away.)

In fact recent surveys from McGill university suggest that 91% of Canadians under the age of 40 would prefer a severance of economic and political ties with the united states. This is not a new phenom. It is only up 11% from the last time this was done in 1985.

For future reference, calling a Canadian is the same as calling a

Greek Turkish,
an Iraqi Iranian
or a Scotts man English.

Two different countries
Two different forms of english language. Plus we are also french.
Two different forms of goverment
Two different forms of currency.
etc etc etc.

[Jonone]

'One nation under a groove' .... well, maybe not.

[Nobo Dy]

So in other words male porn stars are venal, thick, self-obsessed, vain, arrogant, misogynistic, callous, capricious, egotistical etc etc. Jeez, being a well hung stud sure creates a lot of resentment amongst men who haven't got the equipment, and it seems, the women who get the sex without love from them.

[Jonone]

Kelly, you're keen to differentiate Canadians from Americans yet with your 'I have a funny feeling people in the UK are going to hate me for my bluntness' you're quite prepared to generalise about the UK. If you need to see yourself as forthright and assertive ie 'blunt' is that a problem ? I shouldn't think so. On the other hand do you need to be right, can you revise your opinion, can you agree to disagree ?

[Jonone]

.. there's a tone of self hatred in your message, along the lines of '.. having to get fucked by people who don't deserve you'.

[davewells]

If my neighbour put up a statue of Jesus I'd burn him and then it down !

[Jayce Xaveri]

Well Dave..
I do try my best on every shoot...
but your very right to be a stud is an accomplished art form..
Jayce

[Jayce Xaveri]

Hi Kelly
I lived in Canada for a while (west coast) and i loved living there..
Canadians are the most friendly people i know, made many friends there...
Jayce

[dave78]

funkadelic (AKA george clinton)....what a tune!....or rather groove!