working with condoms

[steve56]

i used to love sex now reading this im shit scared of doing it,lol.ha

[joannajet]

Hi all,

With so many contributions being made to Alicia's topic and being one of the very very few US based transsexual performers who regularly performs hardcore scenes without condoms, I just had to add my 2 cents' worth.

I prefer to perform bareback as it allows me to deliver a stronger scene by being able to include such things as ATM, creampie and uncut transition between partners, all of which cannot be done when wearing a condom.


But, at this time, I have performed more scenes with condoms than without even though it is not my preference.


The reason for this is that I consider the decision to use of condoms as being the talents' responsibility.

I always discuss the use of condoms with the Producer/Director at the casting stage and if the scene events dictate a bareback scene, I always ask for the names of the talent with whom I will be expected to perform

Unless I am able to consider my fellow performer(s) as having the integrity/professionalism to respect my personal health and who will, therefore, only walk on set when in no doubt over their clean STD status, then I will wrap up.
In return, I respect that I must tear open a condom packet if any of my fellow performers express any doubt over my integrity/professionalism, regardless of whether it comes from unfamiliarity, negative stereotypes or personal choices.


And now for some personal tips:
- If in any doubt, go for the sensible option and ask for condoms
- The greater your experience, the better your intuition becomes
- Socialise with your peers to become aware of "out of work" preferences
- Work with friends whenever possible
- If "no condom" is sprung on you on set, walk off, piss off the Director and smile at having avoided playig blackjack with your life
- It is better to work with a regular industry performer that has, in the past, announced unavailability due to recovery from a treatable STD than working with rookies or talent with large time gaps between shoots.


And finally,

I love to perform at the harsher edge of hardcore but this can only be done without condoms.

Whilst I am fortunate in being less subject to the "filthy dirty transsexual" stereotype than most of my peers (thanks to regular AIM tests and a slowly but surely growing reputation) and am therefore able to achieve a greater level of trust from fellow performers than is usually offered to a shemale, I have yet, to this day, still not performed bareback with male talent.
The reason? There are only two male performers that I currently trust and until I get to New York or London with a camera person, I will continue to ask for a pause in the shoot so that my stud can slip on a condom.

I would much rather perform a weaker scene which is condom clad than receive a posthumous "Best Performer" award from AVN


Joanna Jet
xxx