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?120 is a bit cheap for any mistress lol!...i take it someones been a bit rough with you for such an outburst.
The girls have to learn somewhere & i myself have lost count how many canes & paddles i broke before i got it right, standing on people with sharp heels is one of the only really dangerous things as there have been many serious accidents.
Tell the girls your limits & agree a safe word & everything should be OK, at the end of the day going to a Dominatrix can be risky but no worse than a game of rugby..seriously i know girls who couldn't have beaten an egg when they started & are now great mistresses.

Kim x

Kazb post on this subject is very illuminating and certainly worth a read!

You could always use your cock for what it's made for and just try sticking it in a woman. Any hole there are plenty.

It's really much nicer then having the shit kicked out of you.

kim,those girls who still cant beat an egg are now featured on Ready Steady Cook!!!!!!
I ve been told Ainslie has a very big cock................maybe he stirs his tea with it lol

How did you become a 'photographer within the domination industry'...i bet you had to take some photos first or you could be another unskilled cowboy but whatever the case how would you teach these girls.
Like anything in the adult industry there are no schools where you can learn & practice your skills so its trail & error, if a yoke gets broken you know how to get it right next time.
I'm not sure where you go to take pics but most of the guys i know do like a few marks otherwise they moan as it is domination after all.
I was shown how to do ball busting by another producer where the guys wear ball protectors under their shorts etc & you kick up with the top flat of your foot..rather more like slapping than kicking but filmed right it looks great so again you need to learn.
If the S & M is too much for you why not photograph a lighter subject as it clearly worries you.

I did a ball busting shoot and the guy was begging me to kick him harder.I was being way TOO considerate and with his help,mastered the technique pretty quickly..and i was approached by a woman at a party who wanted me to thrash her until she was marked,which i had to decline as that doesnt do anything for me........In front or behind the Camera people have to start from somewhere...If someone likes a spanking,you should be attuned to whether youre spanking them too hard,even before any safe word is used! People have VERY different levels ..EG I can take a much firmer spanking than any of my girlfriends ,who would run a mile if they they took it how(firmly) I enjoy it..... and i would go to sleep if i had it how (gently)they like it ........ Great Topic!thumbsup!

videokim wrote:

> How did you become a 'photographer within the domination
> industry'...i bet you had to take some photos first or you
> could be another unskilled cowboy but whatever the case how
> would you teach these girls.
> Like anything in the adult industry there are no schools where
> you can learn & practice your skills so its trail & error

Yeah but, if a trainee barber is learning they cut people's hair for free, if a male wants to get into the industry they do unpaid shoots, if you're selling an untried product you give away freebies etc. What Anjum is saying is there are girls charging pro rates when they aren't pro...it's not hard.

Hmm maybe someone should run a course for Dommes. Just a thought. Could be something as simple as a podcast or something. Anyone game on for Porn School?

As for the anyone can become a porn producer with a mobile phone (LOL) I hear you there. I came in as an amateur and was trying to hold onto that label for years until i was told that i wouldnt pass for amateur anymore because of the amount and levle I had progressed to.

In other words my amateur movies couldnt be passed off as amateur which is when i had to brand myself up with mask and cape and became....One Eyed Jack...Regular bloke by day, camslinger by night.

Technically, anyone paying a girl and making a living by it, getting their tests done and working with "pro" girls (even amateur ones) can be classed as a producer by definition though.

Girls who have done one video pass themselves off as porn stars especially when they name drop who they have worked for which makes me laugh because taking a cock in your fanny for a big company doesnt make you any better at it. They just know how to deal with you becausd they are pros using pro studs etc.

I love it when people pull rank and expect you to be somehow impressed. Try going the distance and be in this biz and turn out consistency then respect will be rewarded with financial gain.

One girl told me she worked with Rocco and I knew she had earned her porn star stripes. To me this means a girl who is on a different level to most. She gives back to a scene as well as take and the men have to be good to get this level of psychology in a girls performance (ok Im getting abit off topic now. Back to work)