Hey Kelly, thanks for your kind words.
As for as what the guy gets out of it goes there is no definitive answer. Many guys have different reasons for liking ballbusting.
For some guys it's all about being dominated by women. They take pleasure in knowing that the supposedly weaker sex can in fact casue them a lot of pain and / or pleasure if they use the mens 'weak spot' to their advantage.
For others they are just pain freaks and get off on the pain. Some guys that are of this nature will even ballbust themself!
And then their are guys who relate it to foot fetish, or who are shoe or boot lovers and get something out of sexy feet or footwear connecting with their genitalia. That again can be associated with something visually stimulating causing a bit of pain. The whole pleasure pain mix is extremely popular in many different forms.
For me personally. Well I guess it's a mixture of many of the above, although I'm really not really into the pain thing. I've often been on the floor after a big kick in the knackers and thought 'why the hell am I doing this?'
But then afterwards comes some strange feeling of fulfilment.
Guys will indeed pay a lot of money for the service. Many models who have worked for me have seen this as a fun and lucrative niche and have started to offer private dom sessions.
Unfortunately for me many guys are too shy to come and be filmed and would rather pay around ?150 for an hour session, where they could get it for free if they filmed for us. Hence on Kinky Kicks we only have a handful of guys which will appear on there, although we get dozens of requests to appear on the site. 9 out of 10 always bottle it at the last minute and come up with some lame exuse. I guess for some guys the fantasy of watching is more appealing than actually receiving it for real.
As Kelly kindly pointed out all guys and girls are always looked after and we always have a lot of fun. Some girls in the past have had a pre conceived idea that anyone who does this are some wierd freaks who are fucked up in the head! It really isn't like that.
On final thing regarding the safety issue mantioned. Yes there is a right and wrong way to do it although no text book has yet been written. The main thing is to try and not kick with points if wearing pointy footwear. A good kick should connect with the top of the foot and push the balls upwards into the pelvis. Grabbing, squeezing and slapping can be done quite safely in many ways, but I think a little caustion has do be made with any aggressive twisting. The balls will twist fairly easily if done lightly, but if done to hard and rough this can cause testicle torsion.
Overall injuries doing this are extremely rare. I have never had any injuries on one of my shoots, although I did receive a scrotal haematoma last year in a stupid off set incident which I'll not go into right now. Let's just say I got a bit too cocky in a club after consuming too much beer and vodka redbulls!
I hope that this was a useful insight into my fucked up mind, lol.
Shay, it was nice to meet you in person at the weekend. Sorry I've not been able to fix anything up with you yet but I'll be in touch soon to arrange a date.