i posted this on her on another topic and got no answer, so i'll copy and paste and ask again.
can somebody explain this logic for me??? i'd been reading wikipedia about cuckold and i don't get it. a man knowingly allows his wife to cheat on him in order for him to watch her have sex with other man and is geting off on being embarrased. it makes no sense to me.
first off, why would anybody get off on being embarrased??? i know i would not. i would be mentally scared for life and it would take me years of theropy to even try to get over somebody i love and trust cheating on me. it's not the cheating part that irks me, it's the fact you are heartless enough to do it in front of me.
i know i'm not the sexiest man on earth, i quite honestly joke that a woman would have to be blind to find me attractive. but i believe if i'm in a relationship, their must be trust and the idea of cuckold does'nt really work for me.
dr. evelin lindner says that humilitation is "the nuclear bomb of the emotions" and dr. roy baumeister says that cuckolding is a form of excapism.
to quote linda richman, discuss.
somebody explain cuckold to me
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Re: somebody explain cuckold to me
Perhaps because that is not the only definition. If you sleep with someone else's wife you have cuckolded her husband, irrespective of whether he knows or not.
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I thought it was called Adultery? Cuckold is ancient English gadzooks etc.
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One could say this about people who like being pee'd on or into scat. We could go tamer and say, 'why would you want to have the one you love gag on your cock and make her choke?'
Basically, cuckold is a form of mental punishment not unlike domination or humiliation. It's weird......but there are plenty of weird people out there.
Basically, cuckold is a form of mental punishment not unlike domination or humiliation. It's weird......but there are plenty of weird people out there.
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Re: somebody explain cuckold to me
The long and short of it is the act of seeing your missus getting shagged by another bloke. The humiliation is just role play therefore escapism for both partners concernned
Dont try to understand it. If its not your thing dont even go there. Its the fact its all fucked up that is the turn on. Like adult babies wearing nappies and crying to get changed because theyve "soiled themselves"
If it aint hurting no one and is done between people that agree to it then let them get on with it. We all got to get by with something on this planet.
Done between those who understand it makes the bond between them special and a tough one to get on Real Couples for how intensely personal it is.
Dont try to understand it. If its not your thing dont even go there. Its the fact its all fucked up that is the turn on. Like adult babies wearing nappies and crying to get changed because theyve "soiled themselves"
If it aint hurting no one and is done between people that agree to it then let them get on with it. We all got to get by with something on this planet.
Done between those who understand it makes the bond between them special and a tough one to get on Real Couples for how intensely personal it is.
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Wrong explanations/definitions
one eyed jack wrote:
> The long and short of it is the act of seeing your missus
> getting shagged by another bloke.
No, it's not.
A cuckold is not someone who knows/wants/watches his wife with another man/men.
According to the OED:
cuckold, v.
(ˈkʌkəld)
[f. cuckold n.1]
1.1 trans. To make a cuckold of; to dishonour (a husband) by adultery; said a.1.a of a paramour; b.1.b of a wife.
Cambridge Dictionary:
cuckold
noun [C] UK /ˈkʌk.əʊld/ US /-oʊld/ old-fashioned disapproving
? a man whose wife deceives him by having a sexual relationship with another man
cuckold
verb [T] UK /ˈkʌk.əʊld/ US /-oʊld/ old-fashioned disapproving
? If a man is cuckolded, his wife has a sexual relationship with another man.
The husband does not have to know he is being cuckolded for him to be a cuckold.
> The long and short of it is the act of seeing your missus
> getting shagged by another bloke.
No, it's not.
A cuckold is not someone who knows/wants/watches his wife with another man/men.
According to the OED:
cuckold, v.
(ˈkʌkəld)
[f. cuckold n.1]
1.1 trans. To make a cuckold of; to dishonour (a husband) by adultery; said a.1.a of a paramour; b.1.b of a wife.
Cambridge Dictionary:
cuckold
noun [C] UK /ˈkʌk.əʊld/ US /-oʊld/ old-fashioned disapproving
? a man whose wife deceives him by having a sexual relationship with another man
cuckold
verb [T] UK /ˈkʌk.əʊld/ US /-oʊld/ old-fashioned disapproving
? If a man is cuckolded, his wife has a sexual relationship with another man.
The husband does not have to know he is being cuckolded for him to be a cuckold.
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thanks for the responses everybody. bottom line is it don't make sense to me. why would anybody get off on being humilitated??? just like sam mentioned, why whould anybody get off on being peed on or defecated on??? don't you know by doing that, your making a statement about your self worth???
i'm starting to think the porno world (and the world in general) is too weird of a place for me. what ever happened to straight up sex??? you know, you and your partner just have sex. no frills, no sidebars, no preamble or fanfare, just shag the holes and both of you cum.
it's a microcosm of our society. a canadian businessman named john bassett once said something along the lines of (and i'm paraphrasing) "life is simple, it's people that complicate the fuck out of it." or another one of my favorite phrases was used by former millwall chairman theo paphitis "K.I.S.S.- Keep It Simple Stupid". why do we have to complicate things more than they have to be??? straight up sex could just be as fun as anything, as long as nobody is geting hurt physcially or mentally. it's like football, why do we have to pass the ball a million times and only put three shots on net the whole match??? i'd rather see a team take 50 shots on net and one of them go in and win rather than see 3 shots on net, none of them go in and lose. but we can all thank the dutch for that mindset of total football.
i'm ranting, anyway, thanks for the responses. i enjoy reading them and i learn from some of them. KRO everybody.
i'm starting to think the porno world (and the world in general) is too weird of a place for me. what ever happened to straight up sex??? you know, you and your partner just have sex. no frills, no sidebars, no preamble or fanfare, just shag the holes and both of you cum.
it's a microcosm of our society. a canadian businessman named john bassett once said something along the lines of (and i'm paraphrasing) "life is simple, it's people that complicate the fuck out of it." or another one of my favorite phrases was used by former millwall chairman theo paphitis "K.I.S.S.- Keep It Simple Stupid". why do we have to complicate things more than they have to be??? straight up sex could just be as fun as anything, as long as nobody is geting hurt physcially or mentally. it's like football, why do we have to pass the ball a million times and only put three shots on net the whole match??? i'd rather see a team take 50 shots on net and one of them go in and win rather than see 3 shots on net, none of them go in and lose. but we can all thank the dutch for that mindset of total football.
i'm ranting, anyway, thanks for the responses. i enjoy reading them and i learn from some of them. KRO everybody.
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Bluewomble858
bluewomble858 wrote:
> thanks for the responses everybody. bottom line is it don't
> make sense to me. why would anybody get off on being
> humilitated???
No idea but that's a different subject ? it's not what cuckolding means. If your wife has a secret affair, you are being cuckolded but since you know nothing about it (because it is secret) how can you be humiliated?
> thanks for the responses everybody. bottom line is it don't
> make sense to me. why would anybody get off on being
> humilitated???
No idea but that's a different subject ? it's not what cuckolding means. If your wife has a secret affair, you are being cuckolded but since you know nothing about it (because it is secret) how can you be humiliated?
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Re: somebody explain cuckold to me
bluewomble858 wrote:
> thanks for the responses everybody. bottom line is it don't
> make sense to me. why would anybody get off on being
> humilitated???
Each to their own, bluewomble. Human sexuality and psychology are very complex and cover a wide range of preferences, activities, desires, fantasies etc. So as long as everything is consensual and legal, who are we to judge?
Doubtless a lot of people wouldn't understand your own intense desire (need almost) to get inside the heads of female porn stars and know what music and movies they like etc. (as you described in great detail in another thread). Some might even call that strange. There are those to whom even anal sex "doesn't make sense". But nevertheless a lot of people enjoy it. Like I said, each to their own.
> thanks for the responses everybody. bottom line is it don't
> make sense to me. why would anybody get off on being
> humilitated???
Each to their own, bluewomble. Human sexuality and psychology are very complex and cover a wide range of preferences, activities, desires, fantasies etc. So as long as everything is consensual and legal, who are we to judge?
Doubtless a lot of people wouldn't understand your own intense desire (need almost) to get inside the heads of female porn stars and know what music and movies they like etc. (as you described in great detail in another thread). Some might even call that strange. There are those to whom even anal sex "doesn't make sense". But nevertheless a lot of people enjoy it. Like I said, each to their own.
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Re: somebody explain cuckold to me
Milk Tray Man wrote:
> Doubtless a lot of people wouldn't understand your own intense
> desire (need almost) to get inside the heads of female porn
> stars and know what music and movies they like etc. (as you
> described in great detail in another thread). Some might even
> call that strange.
i don't see what's so strange about wanting to get to know people. i still watch porn scenes of people i don't know, but i don't enjoy them as much as i would if i knew some things about them. i also would'nt call it a intense desire, it's more of that i like to know what i'm dealing with.
i don't do casual sex, i'm not the shag on the first date kind of guy and it would take 50 dates before you could get a kiss from me, let alone sex. i'm old fashioned that way. i'm not a prude, i'm just very mistrusting of people, i have misanthropic tendencies and i want to give my sex to somebody who wants it and cherishes it. that's all.
but in closing, i'm used to people not understanding me. because i'm different now, i've been different all my life and will be until i'm taking the old dirt nap.
thanks for reading, KRO everybody.
> Doubtless a lot of people wouldn't understand your own intense
> desire (need almost) to get inside the heads of female porn
> stars and know what music and movies they like etc. (as you
> described in great detail in another thread). Some might even
> call that strange.
i don't see what's so strange about wanting to get to know people. i still watch porn scenes of people i don't know, but i don't enjoy them as much as i would if i knew some things about them. i also would'nt call it a intense desire, it's more of that i like to know what i'm dealing with.
i don't do casual sex, i'm not the shag on the first date kind of guy and it would take 50 dates before you could get a kiss from me, let alone sex. i'm old fashioned that way. i'm not a prude, i'm just very mistrusting of people, i have misanthropic tendencies and i want to give my sex to somebody who wants it and cherishes it. that's all.
but in closing, i'm used to people not understanding me. because i'm different now, i've been different all my life and will be until i'm taking the old dirt nap.
thanks for reading, KRO everybody.
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