Making Porn Work for YOU!
Posted: Thu Feb 25, 2010 12:40 am
I always wondered how other people, besides myself, viewed and thought of porn.
How does it fit into their lives and why do they watch? I do not know a single person who has not been at least curious enough to watch some videos, or at the very least pick up a magazine that's consider porn. That includes even the most conservative people I have come across. It seems as though everyone wants to look but I always wonder, why. What their particular reason?!
Do people look to see some amazingly beautiful woman, or is it pure fantasy?
I wonder this since I know I have occasionally gone out of my way to date women I have found that looked like porn stars. Despite their personalities I was drawn to them as if they were physically what I wanted or needed. Then again, friend of mine have dated average looking girls and have been just as happy. Obviously there is no rule for dating, just putting it out there what I have done and was curious if others have done the same. I know when I come across a girl that has that certain look, I'm immediately turned on!
So many lovers I have had in my life have viewed porn with me. It was such a turn on, while other girls have said there is no way they will watch with me and that is makes them uncomfortable. I always wondered why that was. Do other people on here watch with their dates or lover, or what? Do you role play the scenes as they happen or merely watch to get turned on? I have done it for all of the reasons listed and more. I have even filmed myself with lovers just for fun as well. It seems maybe some people are just too self conscious or too serious to have a little fun! Even worse when people blast porn and then have a collection that is outstanding behind closed doors.
Another thing that has surprised many friends of mine in conversations about porn is that I told them how I educated myself sexually by watching porn. That's not to say that I was having orgies as a teenager but that in many movies in America like American Pie, teenage boys are always made to look like they are inexperienced and will be bad in bed. I never felt that way. I saw porn and watched how the people had sex. When I started having sex, I felt like I knew what to do. I guess I saw porn as an educational device as well.
Like I said before I wonder how others see porn and it fits in their lives. Let me know your thoughts!
Cheers!
How does it fit into their lives and why do they watch? I do not know a single person who has not been at least curious enough to watch some videos, or at the very least pick up a magazine that's consider porn. That includes even the most conservative people I have come across. It seems as though everyone wants to look but I always wonder, why. What their particular reason?!
Do people look to see some amazingly beautiful woman, or is it pure fantasy?
I wonder this since I know I have occasionally gone out of my way to date women I have found that looked like porn stars. Despite their personalities I was drawn to them as if they were physically what I wanted or needed. Then again, friend of mine have dated average looking girls and have been just as happy. Obviously there is no rule for dating, just putting it out there what I have done and was curious if others have done the same. I know when I come across a girl that has that certain look, I'm immediately turned on!
So many lovers I have had in my life have viewed porn with me. It was such a turn on, while other girls have said there is no way they will watch with me and that is makes them uncomfortable. I always wondered why that was. Do other people on here watch with their dates or lover, or what? Do you role play the scenes as they happen or merely watch to get turned on? I have done it for all of the reasons listed and more. I have even filmed myself with lovers just for fun as well. It seems maybe some people are just too self conscious or too serious to have a little fun! Even worse when people blast porn and then have a collection that is outstanding behind closed doors.
Another thing that has surprised many friends of mine in conversations about porn is that I told them how I educated myself sexually by watching porn. That's not to say that I was having orgies as a teenager but that in many movies in America like American Pie, teenage boys are always made to look like they are inexperienced and will be bad in bed. I never felt that way. I saw porn and watched how the people had sex. When I started having sex, I felt like I knew what to do. I guess I saw porn as an educational device as well.
Like I said before I wonder how others see porn and it fits in their lives. Let me know your thoughts!
Cheers!