Does porn generally mess people up?

[KazB]

I can't speak for other people Max but all my family and friends are aware of what I do for work - I just wouldn't be able deal with the pressure of living a double life and waiting to get found out!

Perhaps others do not tell their family and friends as maybe deep down they feel they are doing something wrong and fear rejection. Perhaps its easier that way or perhaps their families wouldn't accept it.

Some people who are gay or bisexual will hide this from their family and friends but it doesn't mean to say being homosexual is wrong or that it will mess them up

[one eyed jack]

people who do porn not expecting people to find out are taking a huge gamble.

there is alway ssomeone who knows someone else who will see you on a porn site and all these guys wearing masks just looks really silly.

I wouldnt rule out shooting someone wearing a mask but you can be sure as hell I will play on it

[max_tranmere]

I would imagine, like its been said, that all families and friends of the person concerned find out in the end. The fact the individual was hiding it from them, or that the person said "I was dreading telling my family", confirms in my view that the person KNOWS what they're doing is wrong and bad. Otherwise why say that? In an interview with Laura Hermansen, in the 'extras' bit of the 'Mind Of A Horny Woman' film, in which Laura is the star, she is asked by the guy filming "do your folks know what you do? (22 year old Laura had just stated that she still lives at home). "Sort of" shes says. "I think I had better move out before I get chucked out", she says. An admission, in a round-about way, that she knows what she is doing is bad. Otherwise why utter those words? I would never regard Laura as bad though myself - she is my favourite all time porn star. I have always found her exhibitionist tendancies, which is a condition not a preference, absolutely fascinating.

[Jonone]

Not an acknowledgement that what she's doing is 'bad'. More that it tends to be perceived as 'bad' by others.

[clare40dd]

I think what happens is you start doing porn enjoying it and getting caught up in the whole industry then some girls find they are still single they have a past that some blokes wouldnt touch even if they give it up it will come back to haunt you , its ok you guys saying porns ok but say that to any guy you date or fall in love with , every woman needs love and if they arnt already in a stable relationship or meet someone in the industry thats where the fuck it i dont care comes from drug abusing etc etc.
I know as i have done it now ive met a man i love i told him about the porn ive done he has stuck by me but if i went and did it again we would be over .

So i think either girls have to decide porn the fantasy or real life ior if they are lucky both with a man that understands.

I decided i prefer being with my man im now expecting a baby too i dont think that would of been possible if i hadnt of stopped working just my view anyway

[Sarah Kelly]

Well, not messed me up so much as messed my make up up- their was me,on a fab Shoot with Carder,being shown untold Pleasures by the Stud that is Dimitri then,"Splurge", I take him all over the face,all over my lovely make up( best its ever been,thanks to marcela)...... So cant say it messes people up,but it plays havoc with a girls hair(especially!) and make up.............. Thats art for you!wink!x

[one eyed jack]

What about the viewer?Does he/she get fucked in the head?.Porn is now more addictive than cocaine we hear.


Give a whole new meaning to the word "crack addict" wouldnt you agree Porn historian?

[max_tranmere]

Ted Bundy, American serial killer, was interviewed the day he was going to be fried, and he said it was his addiction to porn that made him do it. (He was also reading The Catcher In The Rye, the same book that John Lennon's killer was reading when he did Lennon, by the way).

[Sarah Kelly]

The Son of Sam said it was the voices in his head...Vlad the impaler said it was cos,having had 10,000 stakes made, it seemed a waste not to use them... The bloke at number 26 said it was cos,as a little boy, his mum dressed him up as a little girl........ If it wasnt porn,it would have been something else.......I think theres far more girls NOT being snatched of the streets and raped becuase of easy access to porn....l lets face it, you boys ALWAYS feel better after a good wank,surely!wink! x .