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Why has this topic made me want to have a wank?

I have to completely disagree with your statement; "....one that caters to sadistic and extreme misogynists. Many of these fans are in normal life quite sad and feeble creatures too."

I mentioned this website to my boyfriend as i knew it'd be the kind of site he'd like and he told me he was already familiar with it. Whilst he may have sadistic sexual tastes with consenting adult women he isnt a misogynist in any way at all. He loves women! He is also nowhere near "quite sad and feeble"!!!!

Your comment is absolute nonsense!

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@Tequila: How can your boyfriend mentally project his sadistic fantasies towards women through watching videos such as these and not be misogynist?
@Paul Bergman: doesn't the title give it away?

Few things from my point of view. personally i love rough sex and humiliation in the bed room thats my bag and i cant get off with out it. My biggest sexual fantacy is being raped. This does not mean i will go on a weird crazed night out and try and get raped nor would i enjoy being raped it would be horific, but in a safe controled play along situation thats what I love, its that little bit of melodrama in another wise boring life.

Secondly you are all wrong when you say that sites like this encourage rape. Quite the opposite many studies have shown that men who are kept away from sexual experiences eg being punished for wanking by their parents or for having pornography make up over 90% of rapists. Sites like this allow people to expereince the fantacy in a safe normal way. I love watching non concentual porn however there has to be the its ok clue. If a rapist happens to watch something like thsi because he plans to do it himself that does not mean the site gave him the idea, banning it just spoils it fo rthe rest of us. Rape existed before pornography and would exist without it.

There is a fab german porn film (cant find it anywhere any more) where a women is abducted by masked men and fisted, fucked etc. There is a lovely bit at the begining of the film where she is waiting to long outside the lift to be taken - its clearly not arrived as planned and she does a help me distressed look to camera. This lets watcher know this is just a film, not real, allowing the rest of the film to be hard core. For this reason i tend not to watch japanease porn as it doesnt have this, either they are very good actors or they really do it and that is an instant tern off.

@Masie: are you serious? or even sane? go and have a chat with someone who's actually been raped and ask them how melodramatic it was. Pack your vibrator with you just in case you get turned on aswell.

Masie,you cant get off unless you are being degraded or humiliated? You need help luv,seriously.

Why do I need help for havign a different sexual preference to you? I already stated before that being actually raped and playing a fantacy are compleatly different and Im aware that it is the most horrible things that can happen to anyone, I just like to play games in a safe environment and i dont see whats wrong with that. Some people jump out of planes for thrills i like to b suprised by my boyfriend. Some people like feet - I find that repulsive, watersports again really turns my tummy i cant bare to even let people hear me through a closed door. I understand that for some people though this is a turn on. I dont come on public forums demanding they get a full psych check up (and pack a vibrator incase they get pissed on by a dog on the walk to the doctor). Surley we all know by now that everyone has there own likes, there is a niech (not spelt like that, tis a hard word to spell) for everyone, we all rely on that fact to make money.

So long as no one is hurt (unless they are asked to be and safe words limits etc are in play) nothing illigal takes place and a good time is had by all i have no problem with anyones sexual take on life and im always shocked to discover that people in and around such a diverce industry as this one dont share that same attitude.