What is it with all this slut stuff...

[frankthring]

Mr Slip - control that ego of yours - your website is inventive, it is funny,
and as it consists of just you plugging away at girls in your own garish
choice of colour-clashing costumes and usually with either no make up
or their own (which is often worse) it is certainly not my idea of fantasy !
What you achieve pleases you ! That is good and proper ! It pleases
your fans ! Quite right.
But as I wrote - and repeat - "one man`s porn is another man`s
poison" ! That is part of the fascination of the subject.
Judging by your scenes you do not much like make up (clearly if you
want a girl to look as if you met her in the street that makes sense to me
but not in a fantasy situation) and I believe you do not like or wish to
understand the world of fetishism much.
Again, I have no problem with that...........but, Mr Slip, some of us like
to see our ladies stylishly dressed up, some of us like soft focus
sometimes, or top quality locations or all that many many aspects that
make that scene a big step from reality.
Frankly, the mass of cheaply produced, shoddily created, and ugly
reality stuff in Britain - we seem to have much less in Europe though the
Germans run you a close second and the Americans do not come even
close, makes my stomach churn ! Urgh !
Do what you do Mr Slip. Enjoy it. Pray do not lecture me on what I
should shoot or what works sexually (you sound like that dictator you
hate, Tony Blair). To each his own. That is the fun - dare I say it the
fantasy - of porn !

[derrick76]

I'll be honest and say that it doesn't matter if you call the girls slut or not. The work slut is used by the site as a promotional tool/gimmick/whatever. So unless you delete and distance yourself from it, you are more or less intertwined with it.

It's akin to a man saying he doesn't use the 'n' word (to show he is 'not like that') but his site has it splashed all over it; a site he profits from.

[derrick76]

Yep, like I was alluding to before. It's like the girl who does hard girl girl being puzzled by why another girl would do hard boy girl.

People watch porn to get off. There should be something for everyone, so long as it is legal, and so long as the performers aren't being forced to do anything they don't wish to do.

[one eyed jack]

Ravis wrote:

Just amazing that in an industry that is built on exploitation for sexual gratification, that people involved in it and followers of it are getting upset about calling the performers slags & sluts.


Thats because people should be reminded that people in porn are just as complex as those outside it. Just because everyone performs sex doesnt mean that everyone is automatically accepting of everyhting that goes with it and thats why there seems to be so much misunderstanding.

Just because someone acts that way doesnt make it so off screen and people are pefecrtly within their rights to not like it.

Dont forget the person behind the pornstar facade. They have feelings and emotions too. I have nothing against a girl who likes to be treated like a whore on camera but she may well like to be treated like a lady in the real world too.

Treat a girl nice enough she might treat you to her "dark side" once in a while but htat has to be earned with trust first.

[derrick76]

...but the girls feelings in the real world isn't what's being discussed here, is it? If her fans see her on the street and then approach her like "hey, you're my favourite slut," then it would be relevant.

It's like the movies. I certainly wouldn't assume Edward Norton to be a racist based on seeing American History X and then approach him on the street and proceed to open a can of whoopass on him.

Separating fact from fiction.

Now, if a model does a shoot for a tog just for content and he sells it to a site that labels her a slut, then that's a whole new issue. I think it's best to leave the willing participants in "slutty adventures" alone to let them do their thing. They're not hurting anyone. It's their little niche.

[corona]

You got to hand it those Europeans, with there choices of locations. It without doubt adds some to a production. That's why I like Marc Dorcel so much.

[one eyed jack]

Derrick76

They're not hurting anyone.

Hmm. Yeah. Try telling that to this woman !happy!