Eulogy to a lost porn innocence.....

[eroticartist]

Deano,

Spanking or flagellation has been around for thousands of years. In a physical sense it engorges the erogenous zones with blood and intensifies sexual pleasure. Psychologically it is a roleplay on the submission of a female to male dominance. Females are biologically submissive as the vagina can only receive the penis. Of course there are lots of males who enjoy role play reversal but finding a true dominatrix is hard.

During my career and lifetime I have met many females who really got off on the spanking scenario.
Mike Freeman

[Deano!]

eroticartist wrote:

> Deano,
>
> Spanking or flagellation has been around for thousands of
> years.

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> During my career and lifetime I have met many females who
> really got off on the spanking scenario.
> Mike Freeman
>
>

OK, thanks for your reply. As a guy who has had no sexual experience ever, I can only take your advice at face value. I have no idea what women actually like. I continue to be amazed.

[eroticartist]

Deano,

Don't put women on a romantic pedestal, some of them really like dirty sex, and when they have an orgasm, gasping and shaking, you can easily tell.

If you are a virgin and would like to lose it I am sure that there is someone out there for you.
Be Lucky,
Mike

[one eyed jack]

The tricky thing about this is that girls dont find it exciting if they have to tell you what to do you have to have a bit of skill in pushing those barriers. For the most part girls like a guy who knows what they want and are (abit?) dominating...Therefore it should come as no surprise that some girls like or love extreme sex.

Its just not for everyones liking and as Erotic Artist said, if you put a girl on a romantic pedestal dont be too surpirsed when she gets bored of the old nicey nicey when she is heated and ready to get jiggy wit it.

Fuck the sex toys, bring in the Nescafe jar and the wooden spatchelor....Cooking dinner was never this much fun.

[zoomraker]

The issue for me is not whether the girls like it, they are proffesionals getting paid to do a job and are not forced to do anything. The issue is do I like watching it and the answer is no.

It just sucks and I hope it does not spread to Uk porn. It seems the US production companies are competing with each other to see who can be the most extreme and there is no where else to go without actually starting to physically damage people.

I have pretty broad tastes when it comes to porn but just don't find this US stuff a turn on.

Long live UK porn, the production values could be better but the attitude seems about right.

[one eyed jack]

I'm not sure if it is supposed to be a turn on in so much as watching a Bruno/ Tyson fight....The missing word these days is sexy...That thing that fires up interest in the male and compells him to watch from start to finish as he is mesmerised by the way the girl moves, speaks, dresses/ undresses etc....Not the easiest of things to convey without reseorting to the usual film makers tools of slow motion and soft focus.

Many girls may look good but not many are sexy. Even harder to capture on tape too. Especially when some blokes sem to think they run the show. A good male performer should know how to show off the girl instead of stealing her thunder but hey, thats vanity for ya.

[Deano!]

one eyed jack wrote:

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>
> Its just not for everyones liking and as Erotic Artist said, if
> you put a girl on a romantic pedestal dont be too surpirsed
> when she gets bored of the old nicey nicey when she is heated
> and ready to get jiggy wit it.

I'm sure that's right. But if I tried that I'd be behind bars before I knew what happened. On the other hand, a fat, drunken, stupid, violent prick would have the same girl licking his arsehole in 2 minutes.