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missbond wrote:

> The nice men I have met cannot accept it as part
> of my past and have really struggled with it.

planeterotica wrote:

Maybe they wasn't that nice then..
>

>

Sam.

We all have a past, we all have a present, we all have secrets. If someone can't accept you for being you, they aren't worth the time.

I've lost a few friends / potential girlfriends because of mine but the way I look at it is if those people judge you about things they have no idea about; they aren't worthy to be your friend.

When I've done my stuff, I was single so no one got hurt. Lots of men will go to pornstar parties and things then rush back to their wife. Who is the sleaze bag? The singleton enjoying themselves or the cheater...

As for 'nice guys', there are thousands of nice guys who would have no issue with your past. They might not be over six foot or have tight abs but they are around.

Just be honest with the person once you feel you are in that place and if they run; they weren't right for you.

Spot on Planet. My thoughts exactly.

To be fair I can understand most normal blokes would take issue but if they really liked you they woul daccept it was in your past and just move on with the future...Im cynical enough to believe that when some blokes get with porn stars (or ex ones) its to satisfy their urges and ego that theyve shagged a porn star.

What I cant stand is when they suddenly find them disgusting when they knew what they were getting into. Its proof that a lot of blokes don't think past their hard ons.

Girls too...I've actually had sex with girls outside of porn because they KNEW I did porn. This tells me that I was a nice place to visit but they didnt want to stay... I feel so used !sad! Fringe benefits I guess but it can be irksome being judged. Its not as if we kill people or peddle drugs is it?

I notice there is less stigma associated with that category of person than it is doing porn but I accept that came with the territory when I got into it

Harry said:

"They might not be over six foot or have tight abs but they are around"

I've found when girls have had this type of guy that he was a player using the porn past as a "get out of jail quick" excuse.

The real problem is, people dont take time to invest in relationships much these days. Its all stick and move mostly

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To get the film in a physical hard copy is a bit more difficult. Download is possible.

Missbond,

I am sorry if you have experienced difficulties as a result of your past. I am glad that you seem to be in a happier/more content place now.

I know I'm just a random Joe, but I wish you all the best for the future.

alicia_fan_uk

Well said Terry.

I had a recent discussion with some mates about a former model joining a social group I was a member of. They were all 'what's she need to join a group for' and I was 'she's a human being like the rest of us'.

I've met a number of porn people - yourself included - and what I like is they are down to earth and don't put sex into the usual 'don't mention it' box.

Dating is a minefield - I'm still looking for Miss Right - so what do I know

Alicia_fan_uk: Thank you for message, it's very kind of you to take the trouble to send your good wishes. Much appreciated..

By the way gents, a 6 foot man with tight abs is so far removed from what I am attracted to in a man I had to laugh when I read it

Thank you for all your responses and to Joe for the DKMJFM2 clips..

Yeah but you gotta admit, it aint a bad start if the man you love is sporting a 6 pack rack

I feel bad, now, for wanking over you.