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Re: All you guys who watch porn...
Posted: Thu Aug 05, 2004 12:56 pm
by daveypb24
damn i just thought it was the law!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! seriously im 33 y/o and virtualy blind , but it is nice now and again to watch agood looking girl enjoyin herself , and doesnt have to be hardcore all the time.
my g/f actively encourasges me to watch porn and she enjoys it too.
spose im just lucky!!!!!!!
Re: All you guys who watch porn...
Posted: Thu Aug 05, 2004 1:52 pm
by Scott Rider
It might be because Males are more stimulated by visual concepts than Females are. i.e we get more out of it than they do. Something to do with the different chemicals/processes in our brains, if I remember my biology correctly!
Re: All you guys who watch porn...
Posted: Thu Aug 05, 2004 2:01 pm
by chatterji
1. Fantasy, wank-fodder and comedy (fake groans 'n' moans etc)
2. Some of my partners have been very sexually driven and some haven't. Those that were tended to 'act' like porn stars in terms of lack of inhibitions, and a genuine desire to explore and embrace all aspects of their sexuality, including watching porn. Those that weren't, were more inhibited and so were less open. I would never want to pressure anyone into doing something they weren't comfortable with, so I've always gone with the flow. Not always easy as my own sex drive is very high and my kink level pronounced, but there's a lot more to any relationship than sex.
Re: All you guys who watch porn...
Posted: Thu Aug 05, 2004 2:14 pm
by Pianaman
1. Why do you watch porn
Because I love women and I love sex. Great sex involves all the senses including looking as well as doing and feeling. So for me porn is simply an aspect of my sexuality - particularly my voyeuristic tendencies.
2. Is it fantasy or do you expect your gf's/wives to do the stuff you see in porn films
There is a fantasy element to all good sex. Sex involves imagination and creativity (at least if it's not to become sterile). It's also a process of communication so like with all things an element of give and take is essential. However I don't enjoy sex if it's not fun for my partner(s) as well so I don't enjoy porn or "reallife" sex if it's not pleasurable for all involved. I find women very beautiful when transformed by ecstacy and passion - I love horniness, I love playfulness and spontaneity, and I love arousing others and seeing their pleasure and happiness so I only really like porn that has these elements in (as it's, as I said in the first question, an aspect and extension of my sexuality). So naturally I wouldn't expect anyone to do anything that wasn't a source of happiness and pleasure to them as well as myself.
Re: All you guys who watch porn...
Posted: Thu Aug 05, 2004 2:40 pm
by Lizard
1. There is very little on Telivision these days.
2.I,ll get back to you on the second one, however a pre-requisite of a G/F must be, to be able to make a good cup of tea, when asked.
3. How often to you get Laid Tequila?
Re: All you guys who watch porn...
Posted: Thu Aug 05, 2004 8:24 pm
by Sarah-louise4
Well said!
Porn is a kind of escapism, when you watch a porn flick it feels very liberating, they are being dirty, it gives you permission to be dirty, to know that your desires are not taboo because THEY are doing it too.
Do you have porn sex all the time, well no, but sex is multi faceted, sex can be a drunken fumble on the night bus, a naughty threesome in a posh hotel
Sooooo many different things.
I guess there is an element of "slut fix" by watching a blue movie
Re: All you guys who watch porn...
Posted: Thu Aug 05, 2004 8:58 pm
by Tequila_Woods
lol...iv not had sex in months darling....well, thats exageratting a bit...probably about a month though
Re: All you guys who watch porn...
Posted: Thu Aug 05, 2004 9:25 pm
by spat
well said indeed! There's nothing like watching a girl enjoying her own sexuality and if that's your bag then porn is often the way. Of course it's pretty damn good when you've got a hot thing watching it with you too, just trying to get them in front of a camera seems the hard part, ahem