Unique experience ... for me anyway

[awomanatwork]

Thought I would share with you a very unique experience for me - I have , as probably many other producers before me have had, a model who requests that her circumstances have changed and she would appreciate the all content that she did for me was deleted.
I have a policy of a blanket 'No'
However, this particular model included in her text that she would refund all costs (again unique).
I met with her and her boyfriend. She paid back her fees for 4 session + my time for 4 sessions ... paid for my meal and a few glass of Scotlands finest and and a huge thank you from the boyfriend ... totally unique experience, but delt with in a very professional way.

[cockneygeezer2009]

If you made loads of money from the films then why not. Doesn't stop the films from being uploaded to tube sites by someone else though.

Can't understand why women get their kit off, get paid then want it deleted. Don't get your kit off in the first place ladies.

[insculpt]

Wow, that's amazingly classy, Both from her and you. It's nice to hear nice things about the industry and the people within it.

[one eyed jack]

Thats impressive and very gracious

I was offered the same, less wined an dined because I refused on the gorun it was too late and the content ad been out too long to effectively do anything about it but theese days Im more inclined to put people off by advising the of what theyre getting into so my conscience s clear later on f anything comes of it.

The best thing to do is have a stage name to seperate ones work life in the erotic biz from their personal one but then its not a guarantee against discovery and all the hassle that can come from it

[one eyed jack]

I really should spell check myself. I really sorry.

The above post in english:

Thats impressive and very gracious

I was offered the same, less wined an dined because I refused on the ground it was too late and the content had been out too long to effectively do anything about it but these days I'm more inclined to put people off by advising them of what theyre getting into so my conscience is clear later on if anything comes of it.

The best thing to do is have a stage name to seperate ones work life in the erotic biz from a personal one but then its not a guarantee against discovery and all the hassle that can come from it

[awomanatwork]

Thank you cocknetgeezer, insult and one eyed jack for your input.
It just made a refreshing change for a model to contact me with an offer to compensate me for my time and out of pocket finances (although this situation has only happened to me 3 other times in the last 6 years).
Please don't get me wrong I have a policy of 'no' to this type of request. Just never had a model being so considerate in terms of my financial outlay.

Totally agree 100% on the stage name scenario one eyed jack, in fact I had given this particular model one after our first shoot.

Anyway, both sides walked away comfortable with the agreement.