Eulogy to a lost porn innocence.....

[Bruce Barnard]

I once wrote a book about the UK sex industry.

In no way does this make me special; I only mention it because in some small way it means I have an informed opinion, rather then one defined by all the bullshit you see in your typical C4 ?dark tale? independent production company bitch fest.

I spent the last week looking through some native smut and I draw the following conclusions.

1: The misogynistic US slap em?, choke em?, gape em?, humiliate em? aesthetic is spreading like a virus.

2: This is not a good thing.

I can?t watch the vast majority of porn being banged out in the UK at the moment. If I see another scene where buffed up muscle boys tit slap a Latvian model before gobbing on her face and gaping her till the point of prolapse I?ll most likely puke.

It bears no relationship to any genuine human sexual impulse.

Even pornography needs to keep one foot in reality.

We?ve lost that.

[eroticartist]

Bruce,
How could you write a book about the UK sex industry without interviewing me? I trust that there was a chapter about corruption?
Mike Freeman

[MensWorldMayfair]

Bruce, you're singing my song. That's why we ran a big piece about violence in US porn in the mags.

[eroticartist]

All you are doing is supporting the censorship brigade and aiding the proposed legislation against SM.
Mike Freeman.

[Deano!]

I completely agree with Bruce. In fact, as I read it I wondered if my knob had been calling itself 'Bruce Barnard' and had learnt to get on the net while I was asleep!

My particular gripe is all this arse slapping that seems to be mandatory these days. I really dont think the girls like it and it puzzles me.

Perhaps I'm wierd and perverted but I actually LIKE girls who do porn and want to see them portrayed as sizzling sex-pots who love to fuck and just want to get off on the sheer thrill of hot sex along with the lucky guys. All this degradation stuff puts me right off - its as if the girl is being punished for being a slut. What man in his right mind wants to discourage chicks from rooting ???!!

I must say however, ( and this will sound like a cracked record ) that unfortunately many girls will not go near any guy who doesn't treat them like shit and maybe the porn producers these days are simply reflecting this sad trend.

When I'm jerkin' the gerkin' these days I far more often think about girls I actually know. Well, I must run..... " Ohhhh.....Emma baby "

[one eyed jack]

Arse slapping seems tame...The girls usually getting it usaly like it...Well from my experience. Some girls actually like to be driven this way. It s a tough one for sure but not everyone who does extreme porn is doing it against their will.

Some girls have admitted to prefferring this as it makes them feel less weird that the guy is falling in love with them. I've heard it with my own ears and I do understand it even though some might not.

[Sam Slater]

Tis true......

I've heard from a few performers that guys who act all romantic and nice, just end up coming across creepy.

What the girls are thinking:

Ass slapping.................I'm turned on!
Hair pulling.................He's kinky and that's fine with me!
Choking......................It's kinda ok, if I like you.
Face slapping................You're starting to take the piss.
Titty slapping...............It hurts! Get this moron off me!