Facial Abuse - Any Girls Here Been There?

[oli_cortez]

I have to admit comments like getting raped is my fantasy is absurd. An ex partner of mine once divulged this to me and eventually we broke up over it as it made me physically sick.

Masie what you are talking about isnt rape it's role play which is two completly different things and should not be spoken in the same breath. I think you should speak to rape victims before saying that comment without a care in the world. Rape victims can often suffer from deep psychological and emotional problems for the rest of their lives and I believe they would find your comments hugely offensive and upsetting.

And comparing a dog pissing on you to getting raped is slightly absurd (however, I understand what your getting at).

I am not a moral do gooder and I don't give a shit what consenting adults do on their own home but when discussing such a volatile subject I believe words should be chosen more carefully.

[oli_cortez]

It's a very complex subject, and in my opinion these sites are somewhat degrading on women. However, as it has been clearly stated already on this thread is that women are into this and therefore why should it be classed as degrading.


I believe the problem arises when a) young people access the material and may believe that this is the norm 2) when you get indviduals viewing it who cannot differentiate between fantasy and reality and it may tanscend their wanking time and people may get hurt etc.

The problem I find with porn is that to some extent you get desensitised with it if it's part of your life and some people may move into harder stuff such as bestiality and fluff movies.

I presume the aformentioned site could be deemed illegal in this country since the extreme porn laws were passed last year? Or am I mistaken?

Please note I am not attracted to dogs or dead people!

[Bukkakefacepainter]

Blimey, I didn't expect this topic to be so controversial!

My own take on Facial Abuse is that, if everything is explained, all made explicit as to what the scenes will entail - no problem at all. But this is why I would have liked a FA girl to state what they are 'prepped' to expect.

[Tequila_Woods]

Gotta love the vanillas *rollseyes*

[Tequila_Woods]

[Grendel1]

Maisie, I totally understand where you're comin from (we had a few chats about it remember?), even tho it's not quite my bag. I've known a surprising number of girls who've been raped at one time or another in their life, and it is indeed the most awful thing, but there is indeed a huge difference between acting and reality. Some people will like to watch it, some won't. Doesn't make those who like to watch or take part in acting out their fantasy sick. Different strokes etc.

[Bukkakefacepainter]

This thread has polarised between the vanillas and the kinky and I apologise, I never meant for this.

All I was asking was whether the FA lot go beyond the realms of consent (relying on the consent waiver) and go too far in the psychology stuff. Many people like dominating and humiliating others sexually. No problem at all. All consensual is fine.

[Tequila_Woods]

No need to apologise hun. You asked a valid question .

Its just when people come on and start saying, oh you need help because you have rape fantasies (iv been raped and yet still have rape fantasies - go figure - im a walking paradox) or enjoy being humiliated and degraded, to actually directly insult my boyfriend/Master, then people tend to want to defend themselves.

Unfortunately people tend to have opinions on things they know nothing about.

I hope you find the answers you seek in regards to your OP and i apologise for hi-jacking your thread a little lol.