What's going on?

[Blackghostuk]

I read a topic, which albeit now closed, and I saw people arguing over something other than what the thread was for!
It was not that which bothered me, but the fact that this is supposed to be about the women who do us a favour by entertaining us, whilst enjoying themselves!
I'm not lucky enough to have a job like that, but why come to a unique website and bitch about this woman and that woman, or whatever?
I could go on, but I'm not sure what it would gain!
I know that we all have differences of opinion, but surely it can be done constructively! We are all adults and I'm sure it does mention that in the name of the site....
At least stick to friendly banter and yes that does include the girls too!

[marcusallen]

Stonevid,
You are one hell of a diplomat.

Your response to the guy is SURE to encourage him to participate in future, especially as he was not "laying down the rules" but making an honest comment as he saw a particular situation.

Have a LARGE one - or three - and chill out.

[Deuce Bigolo]

Can't help feeling theres still some bad blood floating around probably due to the HIV 'War of Words'

Egos...such fragile things

cheers
B....OZ

[Blackghostuk]

I have been on this site for years! Before it was a log in site!
I even chatted with Mario about a possible book about his life, chatted to Cathy Barry about "how much bigger I am" than Omar! I have a history with BGAFD that has had some interesting conclusions.
The fact that you may not of heard of me, is interesting........!

[Blackghostuk]

I think that even though I have not pin pointed a subject, it has got to the stage that it should be a joy to come here from work and look at the fact that whilst people have opinions, they also have the smarts that go with it! I don't think that it right to slate someone just because! If you know that person then it wouldn't be a public debate!
Imagine if it was directed at you. I know it would get my back up if they didn't know me and were all pious about a subject that they either read about, or just have an opinion on.
Everything can be done tactfully and with some decorum I don't think it takes much to do that.

[woodgnome]

if you do an all-forums author search on 'Blackghost' you'll find that he has posted on 30 previous occasions over the past 2 1/2 years.

[vila]

Why don't you close this thread before Stonevid's continued petulance turns it into exactly the sort of squabble Blackghost was originally protesting about?